Most of the girls I had sex with were in relationships when I approached them. Maybe not a committed one, but there was that one guy she called ‘boyfriend’. Having one does not discourage me, to the contrary, I took it as a challenge to have her. An unsatisfied need is motivating.
My experiences taught me the best ways to make a girl cheat especially if I only wanted sex then move ahead. If she was fucking her man, chances are she will definitely f*ck me too. Like I once said, calling someone a boyfriend/ girlfriend was the socially accepted way of saying “that’s the person I am fucking”. All I had to do was give her socially acceptable reasons to cheat.
I’m going to share the ways/approach that made it possibly for me to make a girl cheat. I don’t know if it would work for you…so readers discretion is advised.
#1) Acknowledge the Relationship and Don’t talk her out of it.
A misconception I used to have was that the best way to make a girl cheat on her boyfriend was by saying things to make her leave him. It seemed logical (but stupid) to push him out of the picture…all because I only want to f*ck.
In the process of arguing my case on why I was better, I found myself saying things to commit myself. Falsely implying what I felt was stronger than that of her boyfriend as I cooked up fairytale of my undying love. The outcome of this approach was I might f*ck the girl after a long while and also place myself in a very uncomfortable position afterwards.
Whatever I must have said to woo her made it difficult to simply f*ck and just leave. I know guys who would tell a girl they loved her, f*ck, and move ahead without an ounce of guilt on their conscience. I wasn’t one of them- I do not like my words used against me.
It took a couple of years to realise girls deserved part of the blame whenever a guy lied about his feelings. They dug the grave of commitment and cleared the road for me to fall in. They achieve this by asking trick questions. Questions like;
“What do you really want from me?”
“Why do you like/love me?”
“I have a boyfriend, what do you want me to do?”
Whenever I was asked questions like those I used to extol the girl’s virtues, emphasising on how I would appreciate her more…how perfect she would be in my life. After I implied that, the girl expected me to act on it and that’s how a supposed one-night stand becomes an affair. She would never leave the boyfriend, yet keep me as an auxiliary boyfriend. She would eat her cake and have it. Expecting me to always be there for her and understand if she didn’t have my time everytime she was with him, after all, I knew she had a boyfriend.
I changed my approach because it obviously did not pay me and I realised why girls asked those trick questions- they wanted a reason to justify f*cking me and not feel guilty. I observed a girl won’t feel bad for sleeping with 10 men as long as she made herself believe they loved her (or they were boyfriends). Those answers I used to provide was to clear her conscience…if that was the case, I could achieve that without saying I loved her or better than him.
The approach that worked for me was being upfront because it supported by my personality. It was about making her know it was only about sex…no strings attached. At this point I know girls would deny the possibility of that being the best approach. I mean, how can I just tell a girl in a relationship to f*ck me and she would accept? Well…
I realised It was easier to f*ck a random girl than to ‘convert’ her to a girlfriend just to f*ck her. Take this quick exercise, think about the girls/guys you’ve kissed/fucked. What was the ratio of those you were dating when you were involved in those acts to those you weren’t? For most people, they had been sexually involved with more people they weren’t dating. This meant I had a higher chance to f*ck a girl than to date her.
Same with fucking a girl in a relationship. It was easier to f*ck her after I assured her the relationship with the boyfriend would be left intact. So instead of talking about how I was a better man, I focus on how I would f*ck her and give her multiple orgasms. Even if her boyfriend fucked her on a daily the feeling can’t be the same, law of diminishing returns set in and a “new good one-time dick” would add the spark into her sex life.
Cheating was all about SEX…focus on that & not a new relationship.
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